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Radio Ruhaniyat: November 04, 2017

Jenny & The Pearls! Detached Attachment!



Hello everyone and thanks for listening to this episode of Radio Ruhaniyat!
We tend to cling on to material pleasures to such a great degree that we often lose track of balancing our material lives with spirituality. Eventually what matters is Spirituality, because we leave all our material accomplishments behind us when we breathe our last. What we take along; are all of those moments, in which we had invested in Spirituality.

Jenny was a pretty five-year-old bright-eyed girl.
One day when she and her mother were checking out at the grocery store, Jenny saw a plastic pearl necklace priced at $2.50. How she wanted that necklace and when she asked her mother if she would buy it for her, her mother said, "Well, it is a pretty necklace, but it costs an awful lot of money. I'll tell you what I'll buy you the necklace, and when we get home we can make up a list of chores that you can do to pay for the necklace. And don't forget that for your birthday Grandma just might give you a whole dollar bill, too. Okay?"
Jenny agreed, and her mother bought the pearl necklace for her. Jenny worked on her chores very hard every day, and sure enough, her Grandma gave her a brand new dollar bill for her birthday. Soon Jenny had paid off the pearls.

How Jenny loved those pearls. She wore them everywhere to kindergarten, bed, and when she went out with her mother to run errands. The only time she didn't wear them was in the shower - her mother had told her that they would turn her neck green. Now Jenny had a very loving daddy. When Jenny went to bed, he would get up from his favorite chair every night and read Jenny her favorite story. One night when he finished the story, he said, "Jenny, do you love me?"
"Oh yes, Daddy, you know I love you," the little girl said.
"Well, then, give me your pearls."

"Oh! Daddy, not my pearls!" Jenny said. "But you can have Rosie, my favorite doll. Remember her? You gave her to me last year for my birthday. And you can have her tea party outfit, too. Okay?"

"Oh no, darling, that's okay." Her father brushed her cheek with a kiss. "Good night, little one."

A week later, her father once again asked Jenny after her story, "Do you love me?"
"Oh yes, Daddy, you know I love you."
"Well, then, give me your pearls."

"Oh, Daddy, not my pearls! But you can have Ribbons, my toy horse. Do you remember her? She's my favorite. Her hair is so soft, and you can play with it and braid it and everything. You can have Ribbons if you want her, Daddy," the little girl said to her father.

"No, that's okay," her father said and brushed her cheek again with a kiss. "God bless you, little one. Sweet dreams.
"Several days later, when Jenny's father came in to read her a story, Jenny was sitting on her bed and her lips were trembling. "Here, Daddy," she said, and held out her hand. She opened it and her beloved pearl necklace was inside. She let it slip into her father's hand. With one hand her father held the plastic pearls and with the other he pulled out of his pocket a blue velvet box.

Inside of the box were real, genuine, beautiful pearls.
He had them all along. He was waiting for Jenny to give up her insignificant attachment, so he could give her the real thing!

So it is with God. He is waiting for us to give up the petty things in our lives so that he can give us beautiful and precious treasures.

Are we holding onto things, which God wants us to let go of?

Are we holding onto temporary relationships, habits and activities, which we have become so attached to, that it seems impossible to let go? Sometimes it is so hard to see what is in the other hand
We should believe in one thing......
God will never take away something without giving us something better in its place!!

We could be praying for a 3-bedroom home, whereas in reality, God could have planned a 5-bedroom home for us. Sometimes we pray for careers in which we settle for a lot less, when God has planned unmatched success for us.
Always submit to God’s plans, because what He has in store for us, is way beyond what our imagination can comprehend. He alone knows us better than we know ourselves!
And remember: When we put everything in God’s hands, we will find God’s hand in everything!!

-Until next time, this is Preet Sahi reminding you to Stay Spiritual!

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